MIMY*

Formal intros for extremely online people

Not a dating app. A consent layer on top of the places you already hang out. Your personal intro protocol for DMs, servers, group chats, email—whatever your scene uses.

*May I Meet You

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Intros transformed

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Personalities (for now)

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Unsolicited DMs (by design)

What is MIMY?

The new end-to-end dating protocol

Your MIMY link

mimy.dev/@you – your consent endpoint

Transforms intros

Scored + rewritten before sending

Your platforms

Routes to wherever you actually talk

Gradual reveal

Share handles as trust grows

Accept/decline

You choose who gets through

No app to download

Works on top of what you use

How it works

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Share your MIMY link

Create mimy.dev/@username. Share it in your spaces. Set where you accept intros (DMs, servers, group chats, email, etc.) and your comfort level.

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Stage 1: They craft an intro

Someone visits your link, types their opener. MIMY transforms it in Victorian/Crypto/Gen Z style, scores it, and sends via your chosen channel. You never see the cringe.

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Stage 2: You respond

Click the shortlink in the message. See transformed intro + MIMY score. Reply with "You may", "Not yet", or "My chaperone forbids it." Answer 1-2 prompts if interested.

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Stage 3: Gradual reveal

Both said yes? Unlock more: alias, city, pronouns, a few prompts. Share ONE social handle. Suggest next step: DM, 10-min call, coffee at that conference.

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Meet where you are

MIMY routes you to your preferred platform. Not another walled garden—just a consent layer on top of the socials you already use. Context and gradual trust, not chaos.

THE MANIFESTO

MAKEDATINGINTENTIONAL

The transformer is a joke. The consent layer is not. We make intros fun but we make approaching someone intentional, scored, and fully opt-in.

Cold DMs are broken. They are chaotic, unsolicited, and often creepy. MIMY is the protocol fix. A handshake before the conversation.

Gettingapproachedonlineshouldn'tfeellikegettingphished. ButcoldDMsarechaos.Nopermission,nostructure,justraw thoughtsfiredintosomeone'smentions.MIMYaddsthehandshake. Theconsentlayer.Theaskbeforetheapproach.Yousharealink. Theywriteanintro.Youdecide.Handlesrevealgradually.Cringe makesitfun.Protocolmakesitsafe.That'sthedifference.

Leave your mark Bill

Draw on the screen. Be chaotic.

The Consent Ladder

Gradual reveal. Real consent. Zero creep energy.

Your Profile = Lightweight

  • Alias or first name (no full name required)
  • City/region (not exact address)
  • Pronouns
  • 2-3 meme-y prompts ("Worst take?", "Unreasonably confident about?")
  • Which platforms you accept intros on
  • Your current "stage" comfort level

Each Intro = A Record

  • Original text (what they wrote)
  • Transformed text (MIMY's rewrite)
  • Chosen persona (Victorian, Crypto, etc.)
  • MIMY score (formality + grammar + awkwardness)
  • Context ("Met at DevCon", "Mutuals on X")
  • Current stage in your ladder

Stage Progression

Unlock more as trust grows

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Link

They visit your MIMY link. No info shared yet.

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Intro

Anonymous message. Transformed + scored. Sent via your channel.

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Accept

You reply. Share 1-2 prompts. No handles yet.

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Reveal

Mutual yes. Unlock alias, city, ONE handle. Suggest next step.

"Meet them where they are"

MIMY doesn't replace your DMs. It adds a consent layer on top of X, Instagram, Telegram, Email—whatever you already use. We handle the ask, the transformation, the ladder. You handle the connection.

"Put my MIMY link in my X bio. First request came in 3 hours later. He'd actually read my profile. Wild."

Sarah, 26

"I rejected 12 people and accepted 1. She appreciated that I actually had a filter. We're dating now."

Marcus, 29

"Someone sent me a Victorian Bill intro. MIMY score: 87. I said yes because it was so absurd. Third date next week."

Alex, 24

"Finally, a system that forces people to put in effort before sliding in. It's Calendly for not being a creep."

Jamie, 31

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Meet the Bills

Choose your cringe level

Professional Bill

"I'd like to synergize our dating verticals"

Crypto Bro Bill

"We're gonna make it, ser. Bullish on us 📈"

Victorian Bill

"Prithee, may I have the honor of courting thee?"

Gen Z Bill

"no cap ur giving main character energy fr fr"

Normal Human

"Hey! I noticed you like hiking too. Coffee?"

The Difference

Normal Cold DMs

❌ No permission required
❌ Infinite spam possible
❌ No quality filter
❌ All-or-nothing reveal
❌ Platform-locked

Result: overwhelming, low-effort, often creepy

MIMY Protocol

✅ Consent required (your link)
✅ Rate-limited requests
✅ Scored + transformed
✅ Gradual reveal ladder
✅ Your preferred platform

Result: intentional, filtered, fun + safe

Be an early adopter

We're rolling out MIMY links soon. Get early access to the intro protocol and claim your username before it's gone.

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